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Sounds like a Big Fish Story – but it’s true!

I must share with you the craziness that was yesterday. Since my husband met me, he has told me that he loved the adventure of everyday with us. He had read some of our adventures right here on this blog and had heard even more stories that the kids and I shared with him verbally.

So many oddities and yet, they were all very real and true. Our lives were a bit hard to believe until he joined us and has been able to experience some of his own crazy adventures daily 😉

Yesterday was such a strange day, I just have to tell you about it. I normally only share my personal adventures, but this one …is just really weird.

He travels a lot. His mother and other family live in Indiana and we live here in good ole’ Tennessee. While in transit yesterday from Tennessee to Indiana, I gave him a quick call just to say “I love you” and ask how he was doing. While we are on the line with one another, I hear his voice trail off as he begins to scream “OH MY GOD! OH MY GOD!!!”

He had dropped the phone (thus his voice sounding distant yet still very loud on the line).  I tried to get his attention, “Honey? Sweetie? Are you there?  Can you hear me?”.  Finally he picks the phone up and says, “Chrissy!!! Something just hit me! It came out of the sky. What was that?”. His voice is calm, yet excited. He sounds shaken, yet composed. I am not sure how else to describe it.

“Are you okay? What happened?” I ask. My heart is racing and I am imagining all types of things like Superman landing on earth…on the hood of his truck.

“It came from the sky Chrissy! Do you understand? It hit me. There is glass inside the truck. The dash is busted. My GPS is hanging from the cord. There’s a HUGE gash in the hood of the truck. I think it hit more than just me. There’s another car that pulled off the road and at least another one that just…kept driving.” His voice is anxious.

I wanted to comfort him…but I didn’t know what to say. So, I switched into emergency mode. “Praise God you are alright!!! Hang tight honey. I need to ask you some questions, so don’t get frustrated with me. I’ll call the insurance company immediately after you answer, okay?”

“Yeah” he replied.

“Where are you?” I asked.

He replied, “Just past Corbin.”

“Oh…you’re in Kentucky. Okay. Mile marker?”

“I don’t know. I haven’t seen one.” He answered.

“Stay where you are, if you can, okay? I’ll get you a tow truck and call you right back.” And with that, we disconnected. I called our insurance company (which by the way is TOTALLY awesome) and they did a 3-way call to connect my husband. The lady from the insurance company pinned down the place as close as she could and sent a tow truck out, scheduled the adjuster to come view the truck damage in KY, and set up the rental car company reservation so he could continue his trip.

During one of the transfers from roadside help to the claims area, I was lost from the 3-way call. I paced the floors, talked to the kids, wrung my hands, pulled up his place on Google Maps and worried myself silly until the insurance company called me again.

After speaking with the insurance company again, I called my husband back. I let him talk, vent and say anything on his mind so he could release some of that understandable anxiety I’m sure he had. He recounted the occurrence for me again and again…”it fell from the sky!”

One of the emergency highway people stopped in to check on him and showed him a huge piece of…metal?…iron?…or whatever it was to him. They said they had just retrieved it out of the highway to prevent other motorist from having an accident. (He took a picture of it, but he hasn’t sent the picture to me yet so I can see.) He asked the people if he could keep it and they declined stating that their boss might need it for something.

The other vehicle that also pulled off the side of the road had a blown tire. They spoke with my husband as well. Everyone checked on everyone else to make sure everyone was okay and then the other motorist left.

Is this crazy or what?

So, the object that hit the truck took a chunk out of the hood in 2 places,  then it flipped up on the windshield and made 3 huge splatter in the glass busting the entire windshield, last it flipped over the cab and took a chunk out of the snug cover on the back of the truck. As it rolled off the truck, it struck the car driving behind him and blew out their tire. Last it must have bounced off 1 or 2 other cars that just kept on driving.

It fell from the sky. No dump trucks on the highway. No trucks hauling anything. No overpass nearby. No bridges to drive under. It fell from the sky!

Here it is. The strange object from the sky…

It fell from the Sky in Kentucky!

It fell from the Sky in Kentucky!

Later in the evening, I shared the day’s events with my father over the phone. He asked if there was an airport near that part of I75N. I couldn’t find one on the map, so I don’t know. What if it came off an airplane? What if it fell from space? What if, what if, what if?

I’m just thankful that I still have my husband, he’s alive, and he’s safe & healthy.

What an adventure!!!!!!!!

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I Can’t Sleep When You’re Not Here

Over the last month my husband has traveled a lot. At first his trips were taking him away from home a day or two at a time. More recently his trips have been a week-long or so. Normally, this would not be an issue. But now, I can’t sleep when you’re not here!

I should be getting use to this, right? Nope! When he’s gone, I can’t sleep. He was gone all last week. The first couple of days were manageable. I was a bit tired, but that’s normal for anyone who’s not sleeping much. By the end of the week I noticed that I was starting to look like a zombie 😦 My skin was pale, my face was gaunt and my eyes were hollow. I noticed my temperament changing and my tolerance levels were very low. I was snapping off snippy comments to just about everyone 😦

My normal body aches were intensifying and my nerves were unraveling. I spoke to him and offered him a brief visit from me if he’d like. He took me up on the offer and said he’d like to see me. 🙂

My youngest son was at his sister’s house already. I told the other 2 boys to find a friend to hang out with for a couple of days because I was going to leave state. They thought about it and both decided to go to their sister’s house also instead of a friend’s house. (I thought that was cool!) I asked her if she cared to keep an eye on them and she said bring them on up. I dropped the boys off 2 counties north and came back home on Sunday night. I packed my bag and put myself to bed before the long drive 2 states away. Then it happened again…

I laid in bed and stared at the ceiling. I counted sheep. I prayed. I drank calming tea. I meditated. I smooshed my face in the pillows. My brain wouldn’t turn off though. I couldn’t sleep! I was so tired that my brain was playing tricks on me. I took 2 allergy tablets (which use to make me drowsy) and nothing…I tried and tried. I was so tired, I caught myself giggling at my own thoughts.  I laid there for over 4 hours tossing and turning. At 2:30 am I got up and gave up. I was a week away from sleep and absolutely exhausted! Through the week I had drifted off from time to time and snoozed in small increments, but I was soooo tired!

I made a pot of coffee. I drank it. I took a pee. I drank more coffee. I would pee more. Then I did what most insomniacs do – I went to Wal-Mart. I wondered through the aisles and bought a pair of socks and a shirt for the trip. I checked the time and it was 3:30 am. At this point I’d decided the only way I was going to sleep was to make the trip (369 miles) 3 states away to see my husband. After a brief stop to fill up my tank, I was on the road from Tennessee to Indiana! (‘Cause I can’t sleep when you’re not here!)

So off I went over the mountains and into the much flatter lands of Indiana! Since I have some issues with my bones, sitting for prolonged periods of time or being sedentary hurts. I could only drive for about an hour or so at a time before I would be forced to pull off the road and walk a bit. I’ve made this trip several times before as a passenger, but this time I was driving and I was alone (and tired).

I cruised through the dense fog and shared the road with only a few big trucks for the first couple of hours. I went over Rarity Mountain without even realizing it. (Normally climbing that mountain makes my ears pop and my head dizzy, but not on this day 🙂 )

I realized I wasn’t feeling tired anymore. Once again, my body was running on reserve energy and I was wide awake. I breezed right through most major cities and traffic wasn’t really an issue. I did meet a very eccentric lady at a rest stop I decided to stop and walk at. It was about 3 hours into my trip. We both pulled in and got out of our cars at same time. She held a leash connected to a small breed dog and I held a cigarette as we stood side by side on the walkway for a minute.

She turned to me and said, “Oh honey, I must use the restroom! Could you hold this for me?” She was offering me the leash that her small dog was attached to. “I will be right back. Thank you!” …and she walked away. As I stood there, I wondered to myself if I had actually answered her or if she really had just handed me the leash to her pet and walked off. Who knows! I finished my cigarette as I walked the small path with my new side-kick in tow. After a bit, I decided that the lady was going to be a while, so I smoked another cigarette and kept walking. About 20 minutes later, the eccentric lady returned.

“Was Pappy any trouble?” the white-haired lady asked as she took the leash from me. I was still looking at her bewildered and forgot to answer. She got in her car and waved goodbye as she pulled out. I waved bye while scratching my head in wonderment.  I looked around and suddenly became conscious of the time. I hopped back in the car and hit the road once more.

I did see a pretty skyline in Kentucky 🙂

SKY

I made it over the Ohio river and I thought I’d almost be there. I was wrong. I still had another 2 1/2 hours to drive 😦 I was beginning to wear down and that tired feeling was creeping up on me again. I had to stop again an hour later because my bottom half had fallen asleep. I walked a bit and then drove again. The total trip took me over 6 hours and when I finally saw my husband I was so happy! I rode with him to a couple of his job sites and he happily introduced me to some of his customers.

My tired and worn down body was screaming for rest and now that I’d seen him, I was afraid I would soon give into the request for sleep. Just being with him, I guess I had mentally relaxed enough to give in to the task of resting. He took me to the hotel and I laid down… I think that was the most comfortable bed I’ve ever slept in! I offer my sincere gratitude to the Indianapolis South Best Western!

A little over 3 hours later, I awoke to the sound of his voice. He’d come back to the hotel and laid down with me. He was talking to me and I suppose I was answering him in my sleep before I came around to a conscious state. I felt so refreshed, complete, and whole.  🙂 It was soooo nice to sleep!!!

We went to visit his father almost an hour away and had a fabulous dinner with him and his wife 🙂 They gave me some late birthday presents I was not expecting and entrusted me with a very old family heirloom. I was elated, surprised, and grateful. I really love his parents and wish we didn’t live so far away from them. 😦

After that brief visit, we returned to the hotel room and back to that sweet restful bed in which I slept solid as a rock for 9 hours straight! I can’t remember the last time I was so grateful for sleep. It was the best slumber I’d had in a long time!

The next morning, we said our goodbyes and I left Indiana to head back to home to Tennessee around noon. It was hard to leave him (and that blissful slumber) but the kids and our lives are in the mountains. So, I sucked it up (tears) and began my trek back home. I drove and drove. My bottom half went numb a few more times, but I finally made it back home (after picking up the kids an hour from home) around 8:30 pm.

I warned the boys that I was super tired and that I’d likely go to bed soon after making it home. BUT, but…I can’t sleep when you’re not home!

So, I laid awake again last night 😦 I tossed and turned, I browsed Facebook, I tweeted, I made a tent in the bed, and then I got up and wrote a thank you letter to my husband’s father and step-mother. I went through pictures, petted the cat, petted the dog, walked in the back yard, and finally napped for a couple of hours around 7 am this morning.

I guess this isn’t truly a great adventure. My only new discovery is that everyone in Indiana appears to have real grass growing in their yards! This may seem odd to mention, but the lawns are all so pretty and full of grass, not like most yards in Tennessee. I’m not talking about yard without weeds. Even the yards with weeds in them are mostly real grass! I noticed in East, West, and South Indiana that grass really is everywhere. In Tennessee, you’d have to spend a great deal of money to have a lawn of all or even mostly grass…and in Indiana…it just seems to grow there! If I was totally naive, I would think that everyone living in Indiana had spent thousands of dollars on their yards. Look at the difference. Pay no attention to the dandelions, just look at what makes up a lawn in Tennessee compared to Indiana:

Tennessee Grass

Tennessee Grass

Grass in Indiana

Grass in Indiana

Indiana Grass

Indiana Grass Close Up

Maybe this is just a plea for slumber to my husband? I don’t know. I’m feeling a bit more rested today after actually sleeping one night, but honey…you’ve got to come home soon – ‘Cause I can’t sleep when you’re not here!!

Mother’s Day list Success 2013

I was so bummed out yesterday thinking about how much I love my kids & husband, how special they are, & how they weren’t even thinking about Mother’s Day coming up. I knew I’d made my list & posted it everywhere I thought they may see it, but I just didn’t see that it was doing any good 😦 This bag of trash sat in a very obvious place for 16 1/2 hours as I counted 37 trips they made back & forth past it 😦

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I woke up this morning and discovered I was alone. Odd. I filled up a cup of coffee & came back to the bedroom. Shortly afterwards my husband came through the door with breakfast & a large hazelnut latte! 🙂

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Soon after I ate a few bites my husband comes in & says, “Chrissy come with me. I’m fed up with these boys. Please, just…come to the kitchen.” Sadly I followed him thinking there would be a new sticky mess somewhere. 😦
This is what I saw 🙂

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All 3 boys were standing there 🙂 I got a hug from each one!
I came back to eat my breakfast. After a few more bites Nick said to come outside…

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*Gasp* The car was clean!!!

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**Oh!!!** 🙂 🙂 I wish these were scratch-N-sniff pictures because it smells so good. You’d never know I taxi sweaty teenagers around 6 days a week!!! 🙂 🙂

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I’m in heaven!! It took him over 2 hours to clean out the car, vacuum it, & organize the trunk! He said the boys helped get their things out, but he couldn’t believe how much crap was tucked in & under places in the car. (Sounds about right!) He lectured the kids for me and definitely feels my pain.

Next, was the new flower garden 🙂 Everyone participated. They dug holes for me, helped me weed & even decorate. I’m now the proud owner of a sea shell garden only 200-250 miles away from the beach 🙂
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I’m one happy Momma!
Happy Mother’s Day everyone!!! 🙂

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